Polish girl: 5 Tips on How to Talk to her

How to talk to polish girls?

It’s one of those problems, I was struggling with for a long time. When my story with seduction began, I totally didn’t know what and how to talk with them.
Always when I was approaching a girl, my mind was blank, nothing was coming to it and I was afraid of making an ass of myself. What to talk about? Cars – no, sport – no, and fashion – I wasn’t good at it..

I need to tell you one important thing. It is not so difficult as it seems. The main problem is that we guys – are rational, and girls are emotional. That’s why it’s not easy for us to understand how and what to talk about.

1. GIVE A REASON WHY YOU APPROACHED HER

That’s important especially when you are starting to know each other. In other case you can easily misunderstand (and you might lose a lot of time on girl that is totally not interested in you or you are having different vibes).
That’s a main key also when you want her to come your place.

TIP: How to get her home Saying just ‘come to my place’ doesn’t work very often. It’s more effective if you give her any logic reason coming to you. It can be iron that you left, flowers collection, awesome photo album or the best pancakes under the sun.
I’m being known from the fact, that I’m always inviting girls for great sandwiches (despite the fact, that I don’t have sandwich maker ;).

2. FOCUS ON FORM, NOT SUBSTANCE

This rule is very useful when you both don’t have common topics during conversation. Then independently from that, your conversation will last, because the common topic will take second place (as a less important feature). In next point I will explain you why.
More important than a topic, is the way you speak.

Consider also the way you are suggesting her a date. I have introduced this strategy on one of the internet seminars. For example instead of asking her will she go with you to the cinema – tell her, that you are taking her there. That subtle change in communication form will make huge difference in the way she feels you.

3. GENERATE EMOTIONS AND AVOID BORING AND FLAT CONVERSATION

Lots of guys can speak for hours about things, that interest ..only guys. And there is nothing wrong about that, unless you are doing it as a sport commentator.

And that is an exercise for you. During next football match you will look at, focus on amount of emotions that are in his narration. Is he boring, sleepy, calm and talking at the same pace? Or maybe his statement is full of emotional impulses and different levels of voice, acoustic color or volume?

Think what stayed in your head and which message is stronger:

  • What he says?
  • Way he speaks?

4. NEVER PUT HER ON A PEDESTAL

Her beauty doesn’t mean, that she is more valuable than you. Let her be, like she is on average day. The same as you, she has lots of disadvantages, so don’t glorify her. The most important thing I’m always saying: don’t bootlick or try to impress her, so she will pay attention to you. Not only in the beginning but during all relationship.

Too many guys consider women as better and more valuable then they (this rating is directly proportional to their beauty), so they flatter, kiss their hands, carry their bags, treat them as teddy bears during sex, and in relationship they are on every demand and never object or resist. Those guys are BORING and sooner or later women will get bored of them.

5. COMMUNICATE HER WHAT YOU REALLY FEEL

You are guy, and you have balls. If you like her ass, legs or breast – say it. If she irritates you – say it even more. Believe me, you will be the first guy in her life, who instead of saying polite ‘yes’ all the time, will honestly say that something upsets him.

Even if she will not like it (she got used to guys who always kissed her hands and treat her like a princess) in longer perspective you will show her that you are different that all rest. That’s one of the strategies, that will make girls chase you.

 

Have fun,
Orety

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